From the DAWGHouse…
Do You Know the Voice of Jesus?
As Zach shared with us at Forge, Paul’s letter to the Colossians lays out, in no uncertain terms, what it looks like when Christ truly becomes the center of our lives. In Colossians 3:18–4:1, the apostle shifts from general exhortation to practical, everyday living—zooming in on how Jesus transforms our relationships at home and at work.
This passage can sound like a checklist, but it’s more than that. It’s a blueprint for godly leadership, servanthood, and submission—all rooted in reverence for Christ.
“Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.” – Colossians 3:18–19
Men, before we talk leadership, we must talk love. Not love as the world defines it, but the sacrificial, patient, Christ-like love that lays down pride and picks up the cross. If your wife is called to submit, it is only to a man who is submitting himself first to Jesus. This kind of love does not demand, belittle, or control—it nurtures, listens, serves, and protects.
“Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.” – Colossians 3:21
Whether your kids are young or grown, your words and your presence leave a mark. Paul’s warning is clear—don’t lead with a heavy hand or a sharp tongue. Be firm but be fair. Discipline, but always through the lens of love and encouragement. You are shaping not just behavior but hearts.
“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men…” – Colossians 3:23
Our work—whether we’re the boss or the employee—is a platform for worship. This is where grit meets grace. In the shop, in the office, in the home, we are called to work not for status or recognition, but to honor God. And if you’re in a position of authority, Paul says plainly: treat others justly and fairly, knowing you too have a Master in heaven.
Forge men, this isn’t easy…
But God never calls us to something He doesn’t also empower us to live out. These verses are not about legalism or hierarchy—they are about reflecting the character of Christ in the most personal areas of our lives. Leadership in the Kingdom doesn’t start with dominance. It starts with humility, surrender, and faithfulness. That’s how you forge a life that honors God.
Here’s a challenge for us all: This week, take a hard look at how you love, lead, parent, and work. Is Christ at the center—or are you?
Let’s be men who forge stronger homes and workplaces by first bowing our knees to the Lord of all.
Freedom and Leadership, in Christ!
Joe Bouch
